White Progressive Parents and the Conundrum of Privilege (Margaret Hagerman)
Parents continue to make decisions…that extend the advantages of wealth. Those choices, however, have other consequences: They shape what children think about race, racism, inequality and privilege far more than anything parents say (or do not say).
Children reach their own conclusions about how society works, or should work, based on their observations of their social environment and interactions with others….So how their parents set up kids’ lives matters deeply.
If affluent, white parents hope to raise children who reject racial inequality, simply explaining that fairness and social justice are important values won’t do the trick. Instead, parents need to confront how their own decisions and behaviors reproduce patterns of privilege. They must actually advocate for the well-being, education and happiness of all children, not just their own.